Many times, mainly when you are moderately settled or stable in life, you start living for others.
Now, this might sound like a positive statement but is it really?
Settling in life should mean less hustle for survival, but it’s alarming when it turns into a “no growth” zone.
Once you achieve your financial goals like a stable job or personal goals like family responsibilities, is there nothing new to learn, upgrade, or experience?
People usually get carried away in daily routines. They will say yes to someone’s evening plans, someone’s shopping for a friend’s marriage, weekend plans for outings, frequent tea breaks at the office, etc.
While it is equally vital to socialize and spending fun time, it is also necessary to ask yourself whether you want this or not.
Going a step ahead, you must ask yourself, is it worth my time? Do I really need this? Is there something more productive or important I can do instead if I am free?
Your life path should be driven by your inner voices, not the outer sign boards.
– If you have achieved your primary goals, focus on your secondary.
– If you are done with responsibility, focus on your hobbies.
– If you have time, choose to make the most out of it than just pass it.
– If you are growing vertically, try horizontal growth too.
