Streamline Your Life: Living the Pareto Principle
The Pareto Principle named after economist Vilfredo Pareto, specifies that 80
No matter who you are, where you're from, what you're going through in life, what happened to you…
Just like me.
Today I'm a super successful woman entrepreneur, one of India's leading corporate trainers, and I've been interviewed in various media publications…
I LIVE the dream life working whenever I want, doing what I love, exploring arts and travelling the world whenever I wish…
It wasn't the case 13 years ago…
While I'm grateful for my life and everything I have today…
This life I live wasn't gifted to me.
I consciously made efforts to live this life…
Because when I lost my beloved brother, Ravi…
Just 17 days after he got married in an accident...
My life was turned upside down.
He is 9 years older than me.
Yet, we shared a deep bond as he was the ONE I looked up to in life.
He made me feel SAFE in the mad world.
Ravi looked after me like a father.
None of the guys in school DARE proposed to me because they knew I was his sister.
So I'd ask him to stay away.
He was always available to help anyone in need.
He'd whack if anyone did wrong.
He'd swear on anyone but me.
That was the LOVE he had for this little sister.
So when he met with an accident, I was inconsolable.
Despite getting an education at a top university, I didn't know how to overcome his LOSS.
For years, I was DEPRESSED,
Started popping 10-12 sleeping pills a day.
Later, I married my friend, Raj.
And as you know in India, we don't marry a person, we marry their family too…
I couldn't handle the family expectations.
My health got WORSE.
I found myself in a complete mess as I suffered a slip-disc (L4-L5, L5-S1) condition.
I wasn't able to even bend at the waist.
I was deficient in almost all the vitamins I knew of.
Low in Hemoglobin ( 7g/ dl max) too.
I had inflammation and swelling…
A confused and always irritable mind...
I felt TERRIBLE.
Lost.
I was devastated when I couldn't carry my own child who was 1.5 years old then.
Doctors advised that I give up my training profession as it demanded long-standing hours.
Doctors also said that I should never lift, push, or pull anything heavy.
The Doctor, like an astrologer, predicted my next five years to be enveloped by diabetes and high cholesterol and also prescribed a lot of medications.
Guess what?
I took my health and well-being into my own hands.
Through deep inner work, NLP practises, self-awareness methods, spiritual wisdom, and alternative healing methods, I REVIVED my body, mind, emotions, and energy.
Behold and Lo!
Fast forward today…
I'm in my best health EVER.
People tell me how I get younger even as I age.
And I went ahead and created my unique REVIVE method to TRANSFORM their lives too.
Besides coaching over 20000 people and impacting their lives for BETTER….
Here are a few achievements I'm DAMN proud of:
In 2015, during my stay in the US (Phoenix-Arizona), I performed many dance shows on stage.
Now, I'm sharing my story to NOT only feel proud about my TRANSFORMATION journey…
But I'm also doing it because it can sow the seeds for your TRANSFORMATION too…
Because if I, a small-town, emotionally-driven, once-depressed-and-sick-as-hell, woman (who still deeply misses his brother) can do it.
YOU too can do it.
People have told me that I make myself available to anyone, anytime like my brother.
Helping others overcome their struggles makes me FEEL my brother in my deeds.
That's why I turned into a coach.
So I can remember my brother for helping people and making a bigger, lasting, and TRANSFORMATION impact in their lives.
I want my life to say his legacy too.
That's why I don't consider coaching as a profession.
It's WHO I AM.
It's my WHY.
It's my LIFE.
That's why, unlike other coaches, I don't work on the problems. I work on YOU. So you can fix your problems.
If my story inspired you in any way to live that exceptional life you were meant to LIVE, then I'd consider it a WIN.
THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart if you read this far, I'm pleased my brother's legend has been heard by another soul in this big world.
Oh, and if my story resonated with you and you need my help, feel free to reach out.
To be honest, it doesn't matter if you take my help or not, I want you to be EXTRAORDINARY.
For godamm sake NEVER SETTLE for the ordinary.
Life is too big, beautiful, and bountiful if you decide to take that leap.